Friday, November 2, 2007

Chemotherapy: Round 1




Mom finished her first round of chemotherapy Monday October 29th. It made everything seem pretty real. Not that we expected a phone call letting us know that they had made a mistake, but to this point everything seemed pretty normal. We would walk the dogs a couple of time a day and even take a long bike ride. The treatment went pretty quickly. We were overloaded with information by the nurse, the American Cancer Society representative, and all of the chemotherapy procedures. The support network that is in place for cancer patients in unbelievable.

I bet some of you are wondering about the picture of the dogs. About an hour after the first treatment we took the dogs to Springdale Cemetary to run. We walked around for at least an hour, and the dogs had a blast. It may sound crazy, but the dogs are actually part of our support system as well. They are always excited to see you, and can always make a bad day seem a little bit better.

On Tuesday, Mom went with a friend to go see some of the museums in Chicago. An awfully long day for anyone, but she seemed just fine. It seemed like nothing out of the ordinary.

Wednesday was a bit of a different story. I spent part of the day grocery shopping for things that I thought my taste good to her (my homemade chili was not one of them.) I then set my sights on nearly all of the pump-top anti-bacterial soap and sanitizer that our local CVS had. Mom was just beat. She was completely worn out, and had to spend much of the day in bed because of fatigue and nausea. We are told that this is a fairly typical response to chemo, but obviously it can affect every person differently. This was pretty tough to watch, especially because I've always looked at her as somewhat invincible. She can outrun me, ride a bike further, and work out in the yard all day without showing any signs of fatigue. It was tough to see something knock her down like this, but we had to keep focused on the fact that it was all part or the path to getting better.

Thursday was a better day. Mom had a lot more energy and was up for longer periods of time. She still needed a lot of rest, but seemed more like herself for the better part of the day.

Today was a really good day. Mom has been up almost all day taking care of some bills and replying to some e-mail that she had not had the chance to get to in the past several days. She is starting to get her appetite back and is staying hydrated. Aside from the total assault on germs to prevent potential illness, everything is getting back to normal. She meets with the nurse practitioner on Monday the 5th, and then begins another round of chemo the following Monday the 12th of November.

Thank you again for all of your support via this website, cards, and phone calls. It is truly overwhelming to know there are that many people out there thinking about us.

6 comments:

Judi and Rick said...

Dear Friend,

One step toward recovery and you are going strong!

I remember Garty's long bout with chemo and radiation and look back now feeling blessed that he had the opportunity to fight the disease and live a good, fun-filled life.

This will happen for you too, just some more rungs on the ladder for you to climb. But you are a strong, phenomenal women and we know you will make it to the top.

Love to you,

Judi and Rick

Julie Hammond said...

Barb,

GPO is thinking of you. Please know that you have our full support. Let us know if we can do ANYTHING to help.

Julie, Lynn, Kevin, Bill, Cris, and KK

Andy Robinson said...

Barb, just want you to know that Elda and I are praying for you. We have an awesome God who can take care of this, and we have committed you to Him and His care. Your California cousins,
Andy and Elda Robinson

Jan Skinner said...

Dear Barb,

I just found out this morning about your diagnosis. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family.

My husband is a 12-year colon cancer survivor and he is still going strong. Like you, he was given treatments (for 2.5 months) prior to surgery to reduce the size of his tumor. I believe the treatments prior to surgery helped save him.

Jan Skinner

Cheryl Kinsinger said...

Barb,

I will be praying for you. Stay strong.

Take care,

Cheryl Kinsinger

Dave said...

Hello Barb! from Northern Idaho.

Talked to Kathy this morning and it made me want to drop you a note. Just know that Carol, Alicia and I have you in our thoughts always. Once you kick this thing, I hope you can make a trip sometime (next summer maybe?). Would love to get you, Grant & Jill out skiing on the lake up here.

Warm Wishes
Dave